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SexClarified: Expanding Dialogues on Erection Challenges and Sexual Satisfaction
Episode 34
Claire Perelman
Title: SexClarified: Expanding Dialogues on Erection Challenges and Sexual Satisfaction
Episode Description: In this empowering episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai welcome Claire Perelman, a dynamic sex therapist and licensed clinical social worker. Together, they dive deep into the nuances of sexual communication and overcoming shame. Claire shares her expert insights on erection challenges, the unnecessary stigmatization of sexual dysfunctions, and the beauty of expanding our sexual vocabulary. The trio discusses how to navigate libido differences and the importance of non-penetrative pleasures, aiming to destigmatize and normalize discussions around sexuality. This episode is a call to broaden our understanding of intimacy and enhance our relationships through open and honest dialogue.
Bio: Claire Perelman is a Queer, Jewish sex therapist living and working in the Bay Area. Passionate about creating accessible sex education, she normalizes play, pleasure, and sexuality through her work with clients and across her social media channels as @sexclarified. With a fervent dedication to challenging societal norms and advocating for comprehensive understanding of sexual health and happiness, Claire leverages her extensive expertise to explore themes such as kink, polyamory, and pleasure without penetration. Her commitment extends into the community, organizing and advocating for social justice and sustainable initiatives. Claire offers individual and couples counseling, adeptly navigating the complexities of sexual relationships and identity, both in her offices in San Francisco and Oakland, and via Zoom across California.
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Her Website - www.sexclarified.com
About Dr. Frankie:
In 2022 Dr. Frankie presented a TedX talk focusing on the topic of sexual fluidity. You can view it here: ua-cam.com/video/mIjAqACtCLg/v-deo.html
Her latest venture is as CEO & Founder of LittleBlackBookMatchmaking.com, specializing in personalized matchmaking and singles events for heterosexual singles.
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  • @HoratioNelson78
    @HoratioNelson78 3 години тому

    Probably got an arris hole like a sky divers mouth

  • @Sunshinemano627
    @Sunshinemano627 15 годин тому

    You’re a freak

  • @strothermartin5368
    @strothermartin5368 16 годин тому

  • @edwardbeadle7708
    @edwardbeadle7708 День тому

    Great information. Common sense mostly. Just found you. You are gorgeous and breathtaking 💘 ❤❤❤

  • @97warlock
    @97warlock 3 дні тому

    theres none whjeere I live in sw florida

  • @lyfeofjah
    @lyfeofjah 3 дні тому

    If you’re bi you’re not lesbian it’s that simple,also bi women calling themselves studs/lesbians is annoying

  • @GaryBilder
    @GaryBilder 3 дні тому

    My wife and I are 70 and have been married for 20 years. Our sex life hasn’t included intercourse for about two years. However, I can’t imagine better sex than what we have now. First thing is body acceptance. My wife and I take care of ourselves, but we’re certainly nothing to take a second glance at. She loves herself and when she looks in the mirror, she’s happy. I think she’s the most beautiful woman around and she gets turned on just looking at me. Every opportunity to show affection, we take advantage of it. Yes, there are mutual orgasms, but we love the constant showing of affection. Touching, kissing, hugging etc. is a great way to bond and build confidence. We can’t imagine a world without each other.

    • @drfrankiebashan
      @drfrankiebashan 3 дні тому

      I love your message and focus on 1) Acceptance 2) Every opportunity to show affection you take advantage of. If we could all make these two points a priority In our relationships we'd without a doubt be feeling more connected and feeling the love more often than not. It's the unrealistic idealized ideas we place such emphasis on that stand in our way and the lack of prioritization of affection, love and warmth towards one another that could make such a big difference in feeling (like you mentioned) bonded and confident in ourselves and our relationship. Thank you for sharing.

  • @obg4584
    @obg4584 6 днів тому

    You're a cutie Dr 😎🙏🏽

  • @tonyvargas11
    @tonyvargas11 6 днів тому

    You are Gorgeous and Hot! Listening to you really turned me on! Would be honored to get to know you! 🌹❤️

  • @peake864
    @peake864 6 днів тому

    Even tho Im not a woman and a lesbian (technically lol) your video was well executed... your adivce was solid not only for lesbians but for all couples as well, keep up the good work... great video and even greater information, loved it fam fr

  • @strothermartin5368
    @strothermartin5368 7 днів тому

    ❤To You Dr.Frankie❤

  • @Herc6969
    @Herc6969 8 днів тому

    Bonjour my beautiful Vivacious Queen FYI u have that je ne sais quoi 🌹

  • @divakarani8984
    @divakarani8984 8 днів тому

    Give me answer😊😊😊😊

  • @Brad_Huff
    @Brad_Huff 8 днів тому

    Dr? Obese and tats? Seriously? You need a doctor with all due respect.

  • @user-ei9nb6xu1w
    @user-ei9nb6xu1w 8 днів тому

    Comfort levels between the partner is good. Once lubed enough and comfort ease

  • @showtime302
    @showtime302 9 днів тому

    Sorry wrong hole

  • @RalphMoreno-d3u
    @RalphMoreno-d3u 9 днів тому

    Hello beautiful. THAT'S good. Feels so good

  • @hermanmartinez9681
    @hermanmartinez9681 10 днів тому

    I say.. Let's do this!

  • @Lamar-lb1vw
    @Lamar-lb1vw 10 днів тому

    Very lovely voluptuous woman! ❤

  • @geminilonebear
    @geminilonebear 10 днів тому

    I love analyzing people.

  • @AdrianCorchis-e9j
    @AdrianCorchis-e9j 10 днів тому

    I like it.

  • @walidkatemtou5681
    @walidkatemtou5681 11 днів тому

    Dr Frankie l am using my wonderful husband l love him we make sex every day l am using his phone. I had my first date with a sexy Asian woman 3 days ago and I take a Video and show it to my husband ❤️

  • @NajibFaiz-xi1ig
    @NajibFaiz-xi1ig 12 днів тому

    From Philippines 🇵🇭 🌹🌹🌹 I have My Technique but no Experience For Anal 🙏

  • @nitinsawant5881
    @nitinsawant5881 12 днів тому

    Ramesh miglani 😂😂😂

  • @gloriayork3960
    @gloriayork3960 13 днів тому

    Gross never have never will.

  • @billmcgrath1224
    @billmcgrath1224 14 днів тому

    Tutorial please 👀

  • @Sunshinemano627
    @Sunshinemano627 14 днів тому

    Your sick person!!!!!

  • @debramiller9285
    @debramiller9285 14 днів тому

    Don't like word "toys" , aids better word, need to change nomenclature.

  • @charlieirvin5423
    @charlieirvin5423 14 днів тому

    I love your Glasses Dr Frankie

  • @divakarani8984
    @divakarani8984 14 днів тому

    Wilson disease❤❤please take this topic

  • @user-rw3gl9ty8c
    @user-rw3gl9ty8c 14 днів тому

    Im hesitant mostly because id be walking around with a snelly penis. I thought about wet wipes and a soapy solution for on the go adventures. Any recommendations?😊

  • @Bailey-z6g
    @Bailey-z6g 15 днів тому

    im 25, my gf is 58, but she has more energy than me

  • @jamec5511
    @jamec5511 16 днів тому

    One in the pink and one in the stink

  • @angelmontanez7307
    @angelmontanez7307 16 днів тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ferencgaborsimon245
    @ferencgaborsimon245 16 днів тому

    Short Version: This is Hookers with extra steps. Long Version: They Touching kissing sexual acts. I call bullshit on this. IT is just hookers with extra steps. Both have money after the session. But would be funny to have the look on a husbands face when the wife just explains that she didnt cheated she just used a Sexual Surrogate. So good luck in this happy new word. Wonder how many old single people will be with their cats and thinking oh maybe it was a bad idea to cheat my husband/wife with an SS "professional" by the way calling a hooker not a sexual professional is the bigest strech here.

  • @markthompson9056
    @markthompson9056 17 днів тому

    Gotta love an ATM QUEEN !❤

  • @charlieirvin5423
    @charlieirvin5423 17 днів тому

    kisses and Hugs to you Dr Frankie

  • @lawrencetriganza5272
    @lawrencetriganza5272 18 днів тому

    HELLO GOOD MORNING WATCHING YOU BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE ❤❤XXX❤❤

  • @RamboBlood-bw8ey
    @RamboBlood-bw8ey 18 днів тому

    Anal is a tight subject to talk about. Honestly I was a bit too big for her as she hung on for deer life as I dove in carefully gently. I tell you ya this cougar was the one for me. I was worried going hard she couldn't handle it so I had to stop. Next time I'll use lube heavy duty lube that should work

  • @kx8960
    @kx8960 19 днів тому

    "3 Ways to Make Anal Sex Amazing" #1, be on the GIVING end instead of the RECEIVING end!🤣🤣

  • @abchappell01
    @abchappell01 19 днів тому

    That was very educational. Thank you so much.😊

  • @oldgamer021
    @oldgamer021 20 днів тому

    I'm sorry if what I want to say to you is at the expense of the discussion you are talking about.. but you are very, very beautiful Mrs. Frankie 💙

  • @CarlosAlberto-ii1li
    @CarlosAlberto-ii1li 20 днів тому

    More american rubbish, you should use your own voice and the computer enhanced one, makes me want to vomit.

  • @jimhinkle7245
    @jimhinkle7245 21 день тому

    This will ONLY screw you up more. No thanks!!!

  • @tmcorey1
    @tmcorey1 21 день тому

    Oh, please. Sexual surrogate is a woke “re-imagined” name for prostitution. So the vows made to God during weddings are now just out the window? Nice. Enjoy your extra-marital sex… and hell.

    • @rickmoss6421
      @rickmoss6421 17 днів тому

      "Woke?". Perhaps your psuedo conservative self needs to be awakened from such abject hypocrisy. You claim to be against extra marital affairs whilst simultaneously supporting a serial adulterer. Oh, the savory irony.

  • @charlieirvin5423
    @charlieirvin5423 21 день тому

    I Just became Friends with a New Female Friend who works at a local pharmacy I can't say which one but I have a crush on her. mean while I have a Friend Jennifer who I been friends with since High school If I get the Chance I want to ask this new Lady out or Just spend a night with her .

  • @stevetaylor8221
    @stevetaylor8221 21 день тому

    You have awesome naturals under that top

  • @divakarani8984
    @divakarani8984 22 дні тому

    Masturbating is okay for daily please talk about it😊

  • @Index-o1234
    @Index-o1234 22 дні тому

    Oh my....gorgious. 🤔? Interesting.

  • @EmanueleMartino-j4x
    @EmanueleMartino-j4x 22 дні тому

    good morning beautiful i Loonging someone relianshep or friendship